Friday, October 31, 2008

Dear Cancer...

I HATE you.
You disgust me.
A 3yr old, really?
I don't understand cancer at all, but a 3yr old?
Instead of Ben wearing some terrible LightningMcQueen costume-
he gets to be sedated and strapped to a table.
Instead of devouring pounds of candy-
he gets to have total brain radiation.
I have seen enough cancer in my lifetime (ask me about it sometime)
but this makes me physically ill.
You freakin' jerk.
I hate you.
(you can follow Ben here http://www.caringbridge.org/visit/towne)
My friend Carin (his Mom) is an incredible writer.
Did you know that we as a nation spend 95,000$ per patient on pediatric AIDS, a preventable disease? And a measley 20,000$ per patient on pediatric cancer.
Yeah sickening.

Sunday, October 26, 2008

Tuesday, October 21, 2008

Health Nut

So I have this friend Chris. She is a bit of a crunchy, hippie, treehugger but I love her. A.LOT. I should tell you that I am none of the above. Chris and I often talk about baking, cooking, raising kids, travelling. But we don't talk about shopping (she wears Dansko's, go ahead google it) or makeup (she never wears any) or hair (she has super long beautiful hippie hair) or anything girly for that matter. Anywho back to the point of this post. Her kids Jack and Kate have never had a hotdog. NEVER. Not one. ever. And when she eats a hotdog, it's a real hotdog like from the butcher in the casing. And I was all "uh what the heck do your kids eat?" and she was all "ummm homemade stuff". So I began to berate her with questions such as "how on earth do you have time to make 'homemade stuff' in the middle of the day?, do you spend all of your money shopping at Whole Paycheck?, are you a freak?", etc. You get the idea. And she shares her innermost thoughts about food, kids, eating habits, etc. with me. And now I will share them with you. But I assure you it's no revolutionary concept.
She told me that growing up her Mother always had fresh and healthy snacks on hand, they always had natural peanut butter, ate whole grain, fresh veggies and fruit and they had dinner together as a family every. single. night. and her kids eat what she is eating; she doesn't run a restaurant. She hates preservatives, additives, food dyes, unnatural sugars, high fructose corn syrup, nitrates, red meat, etc. We talked about how much money she spent on groceries a week/month. And it wasn't much more than I was already spending (roughly 100$). So I thought well I can handle this.

So without saying anything to her I applied most of her advice and restrictions on my own family. I am proud to say that we are now a whole wheat, all natural snack, all natural syrup, fruit leather instead of fruit snack, organic fruit and veggie and MILK eating family. My kids no longer get their own meals. They eat what Joseph and I are eating or they get nothing. I allow them to choose if they want sauce on their pasta (whole wheat pasta I might add) and things of the sort but I no longer make nuggets instead of feeding them the enchiladas that we are eating. It has been nice to eat healthier and feel better about the things that I am choosing to feed my family. So we are one step closer to being treehuggers. Just don't tell Joseph.

Trilogy

Here i am in all my 12 week glory
On May 7th, our trilogy will be complete. We will be welcoming baby numero 3. I am now 12 weeks. YAY! Thankfully I do not get sick so I have felt pretty normal other than being exhasuted. I would like a girl, so would Abigail. I think every girl should have a sister. I don't think boys need brothers, that's what they have Dads for. My brother never had a brother and they don't come any tougher or manlier. I never had a sister and I've always felt like I was missing something. Luckily I married into a family with lots of sisters. They are now the ones I call when I need something, want to cry, want to share my happiness and joy. Sisters are a blessing. Joseph wants a puppy but I think he secretly wants a girl. I found Abbey's 1st Easter dress the other night and Joseph said "Man I loved when Abbey wore that little dress", to me that means he needs another Daddy's girl.

Goals for this pregnancy:

1. DO NOT, i repeat, DO NOT gain 48lbs. again.

2. Do not have a 10lb. baby. After an 8+lber and then a 9lber, that might not be so easy.

3. Sleep train starting at 8weeks. Yeah I'm going all out this time.


And pray for us. #3 might put us over the edge.


Tuesday, October 14, 2008

3 day weekend!



Joseph took off last Friday, which is a 1st because he never takes time off. And actually because he works so much he didn't even use any time off. Go figure. So I scheduled Abbey's 1st dentist visit for that morning. I was a little nervous but as usual she climbed right up in the chair, opened her mouth and followed all the directions given to her by the Dr. She rocked it. I'm glad that she is self confident and adapts well to new situations. She was given the all clear, no cavities! (And for those of you wondering I was told that the gaps in her teeth are perfect, they are supposed to be like that to make room for her permanent teeth. Another positive!)
We arrived home and quickly scooped up Dad and Jack. We headed out to the Pumpkin Patch! The weather was perfect, maybe a little on the warm side. We rode a hayride which drove through the pond!!, went down crazy slides, ate kettle corn, drank cider, petted cows and watched them be milked by the farmers. It was so fun. We were all sufficiently worn out after.



Jack after his turn on the rope swing






What cha lookin' at?

Friday evening I went out with a friend to our favorite consignment sale. I'm always amazed at the stuff I find there. *i cannot stand childrens clothing with characters on it. I do not buy my kids anything, with the exception of pajamas, that has a character on it. I loved shopping at consignment sales with my friend Angela because she feels the same way. I would always find the most hideous piece of clothing laden with TweetyBird, Dora, Winnie the Pooh etc. and tell her I found the perfect shirt or whathaveyou for one of her little girls. She would almost die when I would show it to her. I miss her. And if you dress your kid(s) in clothes with characters that's cool with me, I just can't handle it on my kids. I know I'm a terrible Mom.*
So I bought Abbey a princess 2 wheeler and Jack lots of Thomas trains. score.
Saturday morning we give Abbey her new bike. She goes outside in her jammies shoves her helmet on her head and promptly takes off. WHAT??!!!! No help, no nothing. *sigh* She really is growing up. We go out for bagels and head to the City of Fairfax Fall Festival. It was awesome. The kids rode rides, slides, climbed in fire trucks, ate icecream, hotdogs, fries (which is so NOT a part of our new healthy eating plan, I'll tell you about that in a different post). We came home and all took a nap. Awesome.
Yes that is my 20month old riding a ride all by himself .
Angry fireman.

Look at Jack's face, love it.




So the moral of the story is don't ever let my kids tell you we don't do anything fun.

Wednesday, October 8, 2008

Yeah we're famous...

wait for it, wait for it, wait for it....

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n1GRQGc5GQ0